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During intercourse one of the most intense sensations for a woman reaching a climax and having an Orgasm. There are several different orgasms that a woman can have such as the G Spot type of Orgasm. The G Spot is the most sensational area on the womans body which is located in the vagina.

Men usually have a difficult time knowing when they are in the correct area when trying to give their partner an orgasm. Other types are the clitoral and vaginal orgasms, these types of orgasms are usually accomplished by using the grind type of sex where the woman is on top and the guy is penetrated in the woman and she will move her pelvis back and forth until climax.

The best technique to use is to communication with your partner. You want to talk with each other when trying to find the correct spot because you can spend a lot of time in the wrong spot it can be frustrating for you both. The G Spot area is located about 1-2 inches inside the vaginal area and can be difficult to locate. Once you located you should use your two middle fingers and move them from side to side in a circular motion until climax. When you find the right spot your partner will let you know by the reaction on her face.

Remember there is a lot of mystery around finding the G Spot and some people are even skeptical it exist. The truth is it can be the most erotic area on a womans body and when stimulated correctly can make your partner have a mind blowing orgasm.

Have you been wondering for days of what you can do to get your ex back fast? You really need to calm yourself down now instead of crying and crying. There are no hard and fast rules to follow but I can offer you three tips here to get you started in getting your ex back.

1. Be confident

You really need to build up your confidence by telling yourself that you will get your ex back no matter what. Tell yourself that you can! Tell yourself that you definitely can! This will allow you to go about getting your ex back faster. A must-know if you want to get your ex back!

2. Address the issues

Go and find out for yourself where the problems lie and take the lead to propose solutions to tackle the issues. Something must have gone really wrong and you really need to look into the root cause of all the unhappiness between the two of you. You really need to discover the root cause of all those issues that are bugging you and your ex before you can take any actions. A must-know if you want to get your ex back!

3. Take time out

Allow you and your ex to cool down first. At this very moment, the aguish and frustration after the breakup are still there. Therefore, it is better that you and your ex do not meet up at this point in time in case another fight erupts. Give both parties some breathing space to rethink about the relationship. A must-know if you want to get your ex back!

Your wedding planning checklist is essential to keeping your wedding day details organized. From wedding invitations to choosing your bridesmaid dresses and grooms attire and tuxedo rentals and all the details in between. Relax and make sure to have your wedding planning checklist close.

Let us begin. These are the critical details for brides and grooms to plan:

One Year to Wedding: Determine your budget and pad this amount by 5-7%. Prioritize your must haves from your desires. Write it down. Discuss with groom to be and your parents and get idea of how much each will help. Think about your location, theme and amount of wedding guests. Discuss how many bridesmaids and groomsmen you want. Decide if you want to hire a wedding planner or consultant.

Choose your date - the larger the wedding and more popular the reception locale the more time you need to book your reception.

Six-Eight months: Shop for bridesmaid attire and mother of the bride attire. Decide on the music you want played. Contact your travel agent and reserve your honeymoon. Get your passport and whatever documents you will need for your trip. Save the date cards that should be sent to out of town guests.

Four-Five Months: Purchase your wedding invitations. Shop for the groom’s attire and choose if you will rent tuxedos. Shop for the groomsmen and ushers attire. Pick out your wedding rings. Select the bakery for your wedding cake and reserve.

3 Months: Enlist the help of your friends and family with planning the rehearsal dinner arrangements. Make sure wedding invitations are accurate in every detail.

2 Months: Get your wedding invitations in the mail. Purchase wedding party gifts. Book yourself a salon day and choose your hair style and make up for your wedding day. Mail invitations. Write vows. Buy gifts for wedding party.

1 month to your perfect wedding day: Contact all vendors and confirm. Apply for your marriage license. Go over the seating chart.

One day: Have lunch with friends or family and know that your wedding planning checklist has helped keep you on track.

“She had just severed a longtime, abusive relationship; and to her dismay, felt like she was back to square one in her life.”

I had just ended a similar relationship, a relationship full of infidelity, lies, and heartbreak. And being a veteran of starting over (and over), I knew it was ‘tabula rasa’(clean slate) time in my life - again.

So, fed up with the way things were in the past, we both wanted a new, fresh beginning.”

“Prosperity: The eternal flow of all that’s good in life…”

*Below is the sixth episode in a series of real life events experienced by the author. The only deviations from the truth may be the names of people and places.

- The Other Side of the Coin -

I’m sitting here at my laptop, drinking my favorite (meaning: currently available) Thai beer, listening to my favorite old Rock songs, and watching Nueng prepare dinner. It always amazes me how she can prepare banquets fit for Thai Royalty every night on our tiny, one skillet, propane tank “stove.” Today, as usual, she went to the market, shopped for fresh food, and is now cooking dinner for us.

She also remembered to buy anything I needed for the rest of the day and for tomorrow’s workday (i.e., beer, phone card, breath mints, etc.)

Wow. And to think, three short months ago I was miserable! I was dealing with the lying, cheating, very expensive, and now, “ex-girlfriend.”

Living with Nueng, I naturally compare her to the ex.

There’s no comparison.

In fact, they are total opposites in almost all respects! It’s like I’m finally experiencing “the Other Side of the Coin” - the Good Side.

- Stark Contrasts -

First off is appearance. All my life I preferred dark-skinned women. The ex was the first fair-skinned woman I’d been with in a very long time. When I first met her, her pale, white skin didn’t attract me at all - mainly because I’m a Falang (Thai: foreigner).

I guess it’s true what they say about beauty and preferences: 1) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and 2) People usually prefer the opposite of what they see everyday.

For example, Asia is predominantly populated by brown skin people, but white skin is almost always preferred over dark skin.

Anyone who has spent time in Asia (Thailand, Philippines, Malaysia, Singapore, etc.) has noticed how the local people, especially children and women, scurry around trying to avoid the sun. Every form of skin whitening product (e.g., soap, shampoo, facial cream, body lotion, deodorants, anti-perspirants, etc.) is available - and wildly popular - in all Asian stores.

You see, in Asia, white skin is considered more beautiful than dark skin - the total opposite of most Western countries. The reason for this? My guess would be the implied Economic and Social status: In Asia, dark skin instantly conjures up visions of poor, uneducated, farm people toiling away in the hot sun; while their rich, whiter skinned countrymen have wealthy relatives, are college educated, and work indoors, away from all tanning rays.

In contrast, most Westerners seek out dark skin (both for themselves and their mates). They go to the beach and pay exorbitant fees at the Tanning Salon. In the United States especially, tanned skin implies that you are financially well off enough to spend a lot of time outside in the sun, playing volleyball, golf, or tennis, etc.

For the same socio-economic reasons, a similar dichotomy of opinions exists about body type: Westerners prefer slim figures, while Asians prefer people with a little “meat on their bones.” In other words, in Asia, being thin is associated with poverty, while a little fat means you have enough money to eat well.

Nueng has beautiful, brown skin - the kind of skin that most tourists look for in places like Hawaii, Guam, or Bali. Nueng is about 5′ 5″, where the ex was barely 5′ 1″ tall.

Nueng’s athletic body is strong and sexy, reflecting her upbringing “up country” - the region northeast of Bangkok where the people are identified as “Isaan.” Isaan Thai’s are regarded as hard working and fun loving; satisfied with a simpler lifestyle than their sophisticated Bangkok counterparts. They are also darker skinned.

Traditional Isaan life requires a lot of daily physical labor, labor that surpasses the exertion required for most American farms

Juxtaposed with Nueng, the ex was petite, ultra-feminine, and fragile. She came from a city in Laos and was not used to much manual labor. I can still remember her complaining about going up and down the stairs of my townhouse.

- Domestics -

Nueng comes from a large family: three “Pee Chai” (Thai: older brother/s), two “Nong Chai” (younger brother/s), and one “Nong Sao” (younger sister). With no “Pee Sao” (older sister) to help her and her mother in their big family’s house chores, Nueng learned early how to cook, clean, wash clothes, and look after her younger siblings.

She was industrious too. At age 7, Nueng would come home from elementary school and then clean the house of a neighbor until late into the evening. This was done for 60 baht per day (the equivalent of $1.70). As an adult, she was the breadwinner for her and her lazy, “no-job, no-money” boyfriend. She would wash and iron other people’s clothes, cook at a local food stand, and serve drinks at a local pub - while keeping up with her own housework and cooking.

Needless to say, I’ve never lived so contently and cleanly since I’ve been in Thailand. Our townhouse is always spotless. My clothes are always fresh smelling and expertly pressed. And, as mentioned before, I enjoy home-cooked meals fit for a king almost every night (with the exception being when I take her out for dinner on the weekends).

Comparison time again.

The ex-girlfriend was pretty lame at domestics. I was the one who routinely washed the clothes and did the dishes. I ALWAYS did the ironing. I cleaned the condominium we lived in when we met (and then cleaned the townhouse we moved into before breaking up).

Working 50-60 hours a week AND doing all the housework, laundry, and bill paying left me chronically exhausted.

What did the ex-girlfriend do all day while I was working? I’m not really sure, but I’d guess most of her day was spent sleeping, watching T.V., or cavorting with her friends; or, as I found out later, maybe even sneaking in a secret date with one of her other men.

I’m not a chauvinist. In fact, like most Falangs in Thailand, I habitually share in all domestic responsibilities. It’s just that I was always so tired working long hours, THEN coming home to “work.” And after a few months of “hinting,” I realized that domestic work was not the ex’s forte.

The resentment slowly grew. Finally, I threw subtly out the window, semi-feigned anger, and basically told her to get off her lazy butt and help me.

This tactic only worked for two or three days. Then it was back to the old routine of cleaning up after her and scrambling every morning for something appropriate to wear to work; finally ending up doing the laundry by myself - again.

Looking back, I’d always hoped that she (the ex-girlfriend) would change. I mean, I didn’t want a “maid,” but an equal, fair sharing of the housework would have made my life so much easier. I guess I was asking the ex to do something she wasn’t accustomed to (or even capable of).

Now, with Nueng, I hardly lift a finger at home. She even scolds me if I try to do something she feels is “HER RESPONSIBILITY.” What a change! I’m not fatigued all the time anymore. Nueng does her thing while I’m at work, so we can enjoy good, quality time together when I come home. What a change, indeed!

Yes, living in “The Flow” is wonderful. My days are filled with laughter, smiles, love, and beauty.

I thank the Original Substance (God) everyday that Nueng and I decided to end our old relationships and begin anew…

There are many different ways to enhance a massage, but here are a few tips to help make sure you give that perfect massage! Keep in mind that different people have different needs, and what works for one person may not work for you. Talk with your partner to make sure you are both comfortable and enjoying the relationship dating experience.

• Use something besides your hands! Grab a flower, a silk scarf, a feather, or something similar and use it to gently caress your partner. Make sure to do it lightly, but not to the point of tickling.
• Make sure you communicate with your partner so that you are both confident and comfortable with what you are doing. You’re supposed to be showing affection and love for your partner, so the last thing you want is for them to be uncomfortable.
• Start with a head massage! This is an often overlooked part of the body, but the head is a actually a very sensual area and a great way to start out. With your partner lying on their stomach, slowly stroke from their head down along their neck and spine, using either the hands or one of the above-mentioned props.
• Make sure to use even pressure and keep your hands constantly moving, flowing over your partner’s body.
• Keep your hands moving, but not at the same rate. Vary the tempo, rotation, and pressure, but make sure your partner is comfortable with the pressure you are using! You don’t want them to fall asleep, but you don’t want to hurt them either. Keep it romantic.
• Don’t underestimate the proper atmosphere and mood. Wine, candles, incense, and the correct lighting all work together too

Remember, a massage is about affection and love! Be gentle and caring, but above all, make sure both of you enjoy the experience.

One of the most important concerns for almost every man out there in bed is whether he will be able to make his partner achieve an orgasm or not. You will never be considered to be good in bed unless you can make her climax. According to most guys getting a girl to achieve an orgasm is a tricky task but the fact is that you can easily make a girl achieve an orgasm if you follow the right steps. Read on to discover what these steps are and make her orgasm fast…

Get her highly sensitive- Do you know that women will achieve an orgasm very fast when they are highly sensitive? Now you might be thinking what exactly does it mean by being sensitive. You see it means when they are going through a strong emotion they are very likely to orgasm real fast. This is the major reason why sex after a fight is always very pleasurable. The basic reason being that even a fight raises several emotions which might be anger or even frustration. But that’s actually the perfect time to have sex as that would make her blast into an orgasm real fast.

Finish the work with your fingers first- A lot of guys just get into the mode of penetration too fast due to which they just aren’t able to last long enough to wait for her to orgasm. You see this is a very commonly made mistake and most guys just don’t know how to deal with this. Therefore instead of directly penetrating her you should always stimulate her using your fingers as much as possible and get her to the extent where she is almost at her peak and then penetrate. You see this way she would orgasm very fast and you would not have to worry about lasting long in bed.

You want to get your ex back. But do you know that the first three days after a break up are usually the most critical? That’s when people do the maximum damage. That is, they fall into typical post break up behavior patterns that mess things up, sometimes irreparably. If you’re keen to get your ex back into your life, avoid these classical post break up mistakes:

1. Try not to convince yourself and your ex that you’ve changed, so he/she should give it another shot. Just don’t go down this road. It’s a road that leads to nowhere, you will not get your ex back by doing it. Everyone knows that no one can change overnight!

2. Don’t get overemotional and declare your undying love for your ex. It sounds desperate. And it’s not about what you are feeling, it’s about what your ex is feeling. If that means he/she wants to break up, your declaration of love isn’t going to change a thing.

3. Do not beg your ex to stay back! This is a sure shot way to lose your ex as well as any respect he/she has for you. It’s as good as committing emotional hara-kiri!

4. Never alienate or aggravate your ex by trying to blackmail him/her emotionally. This can easily lead to resentment from your ex’s side for the guilt trip you put him/her through.

5. Abusing or accusing your ex is also a complete no-no. It will only mess things up between the two of you even more. In case you’re too angry and don’t trust yourself, try staying away from your ex until you can trust yourself in front of him/her.

6. Don’t indulge in bribery! Yes, shopping for your ex and lavishing him/her with expensive gifts is nothing short of bribing! And it doesn’t work. Even if your ex accepts the gifts, he/she will know what you’re up to do and that doesn’t show you in too good a light.

7. Don’t get all logical and analytical with your ex. We’re not talking about rationality here, we’re talking about emotions. So, no amount of reasoning is going to help in getting your ex back.

8. Try not to feel sorry for yourself and expect your ex to do the same. There’s nothing more pitiful than someone desperately trying to get attention. Even if you do manage to soften your ex up, it’s not going to bring him/her back.

9. Any kind of pressure you put on your ex at this stage will work against you. You can’t force your way back into someone’s life, so why try?

10. Don’t call your ex’s friends or family members in the hope that they will intervene on your behalf. Even if do, what will your ex think of you? He/she might get angry, put off or both! And that’s not what you want, is it? Let’s say, for some reason your ex does listen to his family or friends, how long will he/she stay back because of them? You will not get your ex back by doing it.

If you’ve already made some of these mistakes, don’t make anymore! Remember, these are typical responses that ’seem natural’ after you split, but if continued, they’ll only mess things up further. It is not the best approach is you want to get your ex back.

One of the more common questions that men who are having challenges when it comes to meeting and attracting women like to ask is; how can you tell if a woman is single or not? Of course the simple answer is simply asking her, however, when you do that especially too early or too late in your interaction with a woman her knee jerk response is going to be to say that she is in a relationship even if she is not, for a variety of different reasons. Once you begin to realize now how the above statement is true you might find yourself right back to wondering how to tell if a woman is single or not.

Basically, the easiest way to tell if a woman is single or not is by approaching her and interacting with her in the same way you would if she was single. What usually happens after that is women who are single and/or attracted to you will continue to interact with you and allow you to further escalate up the ladder of attraction. However, women who are not single and/or not interested or attracted to you will let you know rather quickly that they are attached. Now, most won’t come right out and directly say it, however, they will make a reference in regards to their boyfriend or partner sooner rather than later. Yet, truth be told odds are you more than likely already knew this and if this is your first time reading anything similar to this simply run with it and see what it does for you. As for those of you who already have heard this advice yet still continue to look for even easier ways to discover if a woman is single, I have a couple of questions for you that will hopefully lead to you having a break through and overcoming this challenge in your life.

1. What rules do you currently have in your mind that has you resisting the possibility of approaching a woman that might be in a relationship?
2. In what ways are those rules protecting or for that matter serving you?

While, the above questions may have begun to cause a shift in your thought process, if you are still finding yourself stuck on worrying about if a woman is single or not, know that the resources that you will need in order to breakthrough this challenge will reveal themselves shortly if you allow yourself to visit those particular sites in your mind right now.

#1: Trim your nails: very important! As you will be using your fingers to manipulate her G spot, the last thing you want to do is letting your long and ragged finger nails annoy her! Make a habit of taking care of your finger nails: trim them regularly and use quality hand wash to keep them clean. Make your hands and finger nails look attractive to make her feel comfortable.

#2. Wrap up your fingers: before you stimulate her G spot, apply generous amounts of warming lubricants over your fingers. It helps to trigger orgasmic response on the hot spots.

#3. Shallow stroke: during sex, keep thrusting slow and shallow. It’s to ensure your penis rub against her G spot constantly to induce climaxes.

#4. Girls just want to have fun: nobody knows her body better than herself, don’t you agree? It’s why we highly recommend woman-on-top position for achieving G spot orgasms. As she takes charges of speed and angle of thrusting, she is more likely to climax. Besides, the position is highly stimulating and erotic as you get to relax and enjoy beautiful view of her sexy body.

#5. Squeeze your PC muscle during penetration. It makes you feel “tight” and increase stimulation on her hot spots, thus resulting in powerful orgasms.

#6. Modified missionary position: instead of making love on the bed, try missionary position on a table. Here’s how: let her lie on a table when you resume stance. Raise her legs to rest on your shoulder as you enter from front. In this posture, vaginal and penis is in parallel position. It allows your member to hit her G spot and trigger orgasmic response.