Relationships Articles

Whether people like to admit this or not, no matter what your age, gender, ethnicity or sexuality if you’re single then you are surely looking to find that special someone. It is the hardest thing in the world but find the one person out there that can make you feel like the world makes sense and you have a real sense of purpose, is the most important thing in life. I could tell you that life without love is a life not led and all the other quotes ever written about love but really falling in love is as individual as we are and no one can tell you who will be your ideal match but it is true that all relationships have to start somewhere so here is a brief guide to preparing yourself for a special date.

These are the key points to follow:

If you are about to arrange a date then think about when you are planning it for. Make sure it doesn’t correspond with anything that will unsettle you like a previous relationships anniversary or a family members birthday, make sure you can wholeheartedly invest in the date and keep you focus there.

In the week before the date think about getting your hair trimmed and coloured to ensure your hair will look it’s best, even use a rescue treatment the day before to make it glossy, make sure you don’t have a complete restyle though, you do want to be recognised.

Have a look in your wardrobe, is there the perfect outfit in there just waiting to be worn or are you going to need a trip to the shops before your big date?

Give yourself enough time to get ready and make the effort, no-one will be impressed with someone who looks like they haven’t made an effort or who is late, so give yourself a good few hours.

Let your nerves work to your advantage, use that nervous energy to groom yourself properly looking at areas you may not always pay attention to such as cleaning finger and toenails. Look at unwanted hairs, just check your eyebrows, nose, ears and all over for unwanted hairs and get rid of them.

Really look at what you have picked to wear, does it reflect the occasion? Think about where you are going and make sure it will be appropriate. Always have on good underwear because you have to start with good underwear and work your way up ensuring all of your clothes are clean and flattering to your figure and size. If you’re not sure ask someone who you think would be honest with you and has good taste themselves. Make sure you smell nice, maybe buy a new scent just put a few sprays on so you don’t overpower an entire restaurant, so enough but not too much.

Look at yourself properly in a mirror before you leave and check in natural light too especially those wearing make-up or fake tan.

You can now go to your big date knowing you are physically prepared to have the night of your life and really connect with the person opposite you, rather than wondering if you look your best. This preparation will also help you to feel really confident and at peace with how you look physically leaving you free to fall in love with your date and have a wonderful time, so long as they have put the effort in too, and if you’re not having such a great time with your date you never know who else will see you looking fabulous.

The Seduction Community teaches many ways to tell if a girl likes you. Here are just a few:

1. If she touches you. If she touches you unnecessarily then that probably means she’s interested in what you are saying and wants to hear more.

2. If she laughs at things you say. Even if there not very funny at all she still laughs. Weird eh? It’s because she fancies you.

3. She drops hints. If a girl says that she’s really drunk its normally because she wants you to kiss her. She brings it up so that she has an excuse to herself. “I was drunk, i wouldn’t normally act like that.” Another obvious hint is if she mentions that she has a boyfriend. She wouldn’t mention him unless she was trying to resist getting with you.

4. She buys you a drink or ditches her friends for you.

5. SHE’S STILL THERE

This is the main one. In the seduction community you learn that it doesn’t matter that much if a girl is head over heels with you straight away or not. Persistence is highly attractive. Even if she hates you straight off the bat you can still turn it round.

Also the shyest girls in the world might really, really, really like you but because their so shy they leave no obvious clues. They might act really nervous around you or even ignore you. They might not seem like their having fun at all but after wards they’ll text you “Had a really fun time tonight! Lets do it again soon!”

So the golden rule is, if she’s still there then assume she still likes you.

The Pro’s of online dating are the following:

1. The volume. You will have an enormous pool of individuals to choose from and the chances of someone interesting being in your area is definitely pretty good.

2. Getting in early. Since online dating is relatively new and very much still growing, if you get in now you’ll be alongside other individuals who are new to the game as well. Online dating will eventually become over done. Too many idiots will enter the scene and people will become very cautious and have their guard up.

But for now there are still easy going, everyday individuals willing to engage themselves fully in the online dating scene.

The Con’s:

1. The disadvantages of online dating is the inconsistencies you have to deal with. While it can be an advantage, the high volume can serve as a negative. Many profiles will be abandoned by individuals who signed up to the online dating site and have since left, having perhaps given up or more likely not following through.

2. So it may take some time to weed through abandoned accounts, and hence may become frustrating at times when you don’t get a response back from a member on an online dating site.

Very important:

While it may be easy to communicate online, you must be prepared to have your game down for real life interaction. Online dating should not only be spent meeting other people, but it should be spent researching and learning intimate dating skills and techniques so that you’ll be prepared for real life encounters. You should be practiced and prepared to impress your online date with real life intimate skills!

Here briefly, are the 5 reasons why its now a must to be using online dating:

1. Sitting in your favorite armchair at home while having a cup of tea or coffee, you could be browsing and communicating with many real hot people within minutes of turning on your computer. Compare this to late nights, standing at the bar trying to pluck up the courage to talk to someone you like. I know which I prefer to do, do you?

2. No more worries about out-right rejection. If you are not so confident about your abilities in getting the girl or guy of your dreams then on line dating is for you! There is no need to approach your desired partner either like a scared sheep or an over confident idiot who is on the verge of making a full of themselves. You may argue that you face rejection with on line dating too, but its so easy to move on to your next “target” that it just does not compare to the negatives of dating off line.

3. Confidence levels are higher with on line dating. If, like me, you have had your fair share of relationship break ups, it takes a while to rebuild confidence levels again. With dating on line confidence is much less of an issue. In fact if you so wish, you can use dating on line to build your confidence and then transfer this confidence to off line dating.

4. There is a HUGE amount of people searching on line for a date. Go to any popular dating website and you will be faced with a massive pool of potential dating partners. If you so wish, you could be dating a different one each week, providing you keep your diary updated!

5. Suitable potential dating partners are everywhere! Similar to point 4, there are so many people to choose from that the world literally becomes your oyster - you can date Asian, African, European, American, Christian, Muslim, Jewish, gay, lesbian - the list goes on and on.

The age old question of how to attract a woman is no longer a mystery. Well, maybe the golden trick is to attract any woman in the world, but you can certainly attract 98%. We discovered how to attract women through scientific discovery and a lot of trial and error in the dating world. Well, we’ve cracked the dating world wide open and I hope this article can shed a tiny bit of light on how to attract a woman.

Firstly, Confident people sometimes have unconfident body language and vice versa. If you hope to attract a woman you have to understand that one of the first things that will indicate whether you’re a potential suitor is how you carry yourself. Women naturally notice these things and often it’s the first test you need to pass.

To attract a woman you need to flip all the attraction switches. These are hardwired through evolution. Every woman is therefore attracted to a man who possesses the traits that will help her survival or give her a healthy child. The traits that you need to attract a woman can be a complex debate but for the sake of simplicity they are leadership, intelligence, confidence, and loyalty.

If you are sincere about improving your abilities to attract a woman then you’ll learn about these yourself. I’ll just tell you what’s most important once you learn them: demonstration.It doesn’t matter if you saved two dozen babies earlier that day, if you can’t demonstrate you are a leader and protector then all of your stories are just the bragging of a failure. If you want to demonstrate leadership then you make sure you are never needy or supplicate to her.

There is way too much knowledge to pass on here and I hope you realize that you can’t learn what you need by reading these articles. It may make you feel good but it doesn’t help you attract a woman naturally. To attract a woman naturally you have to understand the big picture. If you just want to attract a woman then you better be a good liar.

The power of this technique called “Gift of Missing You” is tremendous. Not much practice is needed to master this skill but this technique is able to amplify her attraction for your ENORMOUSLY. However, much discipline is needed to display this skill. So, if you are ready, let’s get the party started…

The gift of missing you basically means playing hard to get. Playing hard to get seems like a tool used by attractive women on men. When women play hard to get, the man would instantly become more vulnerable to a women’s bidding. The man would call her thousand times a day and saying unnecessary mushy things and buying her tons and tons of gifts. Eventually, the woman feels no attraction at all and rejected the man. I have been through this stage and I believe many of you been through this too.

I understand your agony and anger and now its PAY BACK time! It’s your TURN to play hard to get and get her to be obsessed with YOU! First of all, before you even embark on playing hard to get, you need to first get a life. If you think that you are leading a boring life, do something about it. Find yourself some activities and keep yourself real busy and occupied. At the same time, leave some time for your dates. When you have a life and really enjoyed it, women can instantly tell and wants your attention.

Getting yourself busy and occupied also enhances your conversation skill indirectly. The more activities you got yourself into, the more exciting life stories you accumulate. Telling your exciting life stories to women is one of the best ways to attract women.

Once you get your personal life handled, here’s how you play hard to get.

o Don’t see or meet her more than twice a week.

o Don’t call her more than twice or thrice a week.

o Keep your conversation with her short when you are on a phone.

o Always end the conversation on a high note first.

o Always end the date also on a high note first.

o When she wants to see you, tell her you are busy and see her at a later time on the same day.

o Pretend like you have 100 women calling you everyday.

o Fill your week with different dates instead of just focusing on 1 woman.

The bottom line of the concept behind the gift of missing you is to make yourself as scarce as possible. Scarcity is what makes people feel obsessed. The power of obsession is very powerful, use it wisely and you are on your way to get your dating life handled. Use it the evil way; get ready to meet PSYCHO people. I am just kidding.

Getting a girlfriend may seem difficult - but it really does not have to be, as long as you subscribe to a few simple secrets about women. Knowing how to get a girlfriend is one of those things that seems obvious once you know what you are looking at, but getting to that point can be pretty tough. There are so many subtle signs and hints that sometimes, they can be looking you right in the face. In fact, the girl of your dreams might already be interested in you — and if she is not, you will be astounded at how easily you can change her mind.

There is a reason that so many girls like bad boys, guys with attitudes, and other men who really do not seem worth the effort — to us, at least. But a lot of women admire those attitudes, even if their minds are telling them that they would be way better off with a nice guy. Their emotions crave the excitement and the intrigue of guys who are challenging. By realizing that, you can turn yourself into the best of both worlds. You do not have to be the guy who will break her out — if you want a girlfriend, you definitely should not be that guy. But you can take a cue from all the losers the girl you are into has gone out with before by learning how to hold yourself aloof. You do not have to be a jerk, but not a lot of girls go out with guys who fawn all over them. That is not to say that you cannot be attentive, but when you are trying to snag her attention, you need to exude an air of self confidence. You need to put off an aura that says to her she does not know what she will be missing if she does not give you a chance.

One of the simplest steps when it comes to figuring out how to get a girlfriend is introducing a little bit of psychology. If you act like you are the coolest guy in the room without being obnoxiously cocky about it, girls are going to flock to you. They are going to what to know what makes you tick and what makes you so intriguing. You will become something of a mystery — and you would be surprised to know how many girls simply cannot resist a mystery.

So it’s that time of the year again and you might be making plans on what to do this Valentines Day. There are thousands of valentine day ideas to choose from but the main thing you need to make sure is to make your valentine feel really special and your valentine idea should be unique in several ways. What’s the use of doing something on the Valentines Day which has already been done before. Read on to discover unique valentine ideas you can use to make this valentine day really special for you and your lover.

Keep a big valentine surprise planned- Different people like different things and no one can decide what your lover prefers more than you yourself. Therefore the best valentine day idea would be to give your lover what he or she really wants and would absolutely love to have.

Fill your lover’s room with a big surprise- Your valentines day should start off with a big surprise and end with a big surprise. One of the best possible Valentines Day ideas would be to fill your lover’s room up with a lot of balloons and card before he or she wakes up and let him or her be absolutely stunned.

Write a special Valentines Day card- Nothing can be more romantic than making a hand made card for your lover and telling him or her what they mean to you and how much you love them.

End it with a nice candle light dinner- Your valentines day would never be perfect until you end it in a perfect style. And what better way to end it than to take your lover on a nice romantic candle light dinner to a really special place.

This question is asked often among people in relationships. They want to know how they can make their partner spend more time with them. While there isn’t a direct science to getting someone to spend more time with you, there are things you can do to lessen the pain of loneliness if this is what you are feeling.

Sometimes it’s difficult to tell why a person suddenly refuses to call you or spend more time with you. Their actions leave you feeling lonely an unwanted. What can you do to demand more of their time? Here are a few suggestions to help.

1. Try to understand why they are not spending time with you. It might be due to a demanding boss or hectic work schedule that is taking up much of their time. They may want nothing more than to spend more time with you, but at them moment they are not able to.
2. You may need to face reality. It’s quite possible that the person just doesn’t want to be with you any more. By making themselves unavailable to talk to you, may have freed their time up to look for someone else.
3. It’s possible that they may be completely unaware of their actions. In this case, just talk to them to let them know that you’d like to start spending more time with each other. The outcome can end in two ways; the person could wake up and realize what they’ve been doing or they will explain to you the real reason why they don’t want to spend time with you.
4. Instead of sitting around waiting for the other person to call you, get busy and start participating in your own activities. Learn to enjoy yourself doing things you love. This will minimize the stress that’s put upon you.

Remember, for a relationship to be successful, both people have to put energy into the relationship. If you are the only person who wants the relationship to work, it won’t work out. Lastly, be sure that you are respectful of the other person’s demands on their life. They may just be overwhelmed.

Is it really okay to make a man wait for sex? How long should you put it off? When is the right time to take the relationship to the next level? These are questions that have plagued every woman for decades. The choice of whether or not to make a guy wait a while before getting more intimate is a subject of longstanding debate.

Truth be told, there are no clear cut rules about making a guy wait for sex. Generally, sex is perfectly fine if you’re just out for a casual fling. But when you’re in for a more serious relationship - something that spells long-term commitment - it might be best for you to wait around a little.

Men and women view sex in a different way. For women, sleeping with a man will always have emotions involved. It’s not just a physical need. The problem comes up when women assume that men want the same commitment that they do. It’s dangerous to assume that your guy is looking for a serious relationship because he wants to sleep with you. For all you know, he just wants the physical activity without the emotional strings attached to it. And if you’re already emotionally involved and he’s not, he’s just going to feel the pressure of not being in the same wavelength as you.

If you sleep with a guy too soon, you’re at risk of expecting too much from your partner and getting disappointed when he is incapable of following through. When you’re not on the same wavelength, you end up being a step further into the relationship, leaving him in the same place he was before you entered the bedroom. It’s better to make him wait for sex so you’re sure that you’re going at the same pace. You might also be sending the wrong signals when you sleep with him early into the relationship. This tends to make him think that you’re just out for a casual relationship instead of a serious one.

Making him wait for sex allows you to determine just how stable your relationship is outside the bedroom. You have to establish an emotional bond first before you go about blowing each other’s brains out in bed. Both of you have to be involved first - with both parties clear about the actual state of the relationship.