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Are you looking for a loving, devoted, and faithful wife? Are you tired of the battle of the sexes here in the United States - that is the liberated single American women who are so busy trying to be equal to men that they have forgotten how to be a “real” woman?

Well, I have the answers for you. Look for a special single, loyal and devoted lady to spend the rest of your life with from overseas. Foreign single women make the best wives in the world. They are very loyal, devoted, and faithful and believe that husbands should be the head of the family.

I’m sure you have seen all those advertisements from foreign matchmaking companies that will introduce you to single women overseas looking for friendship and marriage to American men. This is a good option to pursue to meet and possibly marry the woman of your dreams.

You will initially get to know these women by correspondence. Listed here are some very important tips when corresponding with these women:

1. Do Not Send Money!!! Just like anywhere there are honest people and there are dishonest people. The point of your correspondence is to develop a special relationship with a foreign women, not to purchase one. We want you to be aware that you may contact women who will ask you for money for one reason or another. If you are asked for money it should immediately set off alarms and you should proceed very cautiously. There are instances where there may be a valid reason to send money to someone with whom you have been corresponding for some time. In that instance it is recommended that you send it via wire (Western Union).

2. Do include a photo of yourself, and not just any photo. Take some time and put some thought into it. For example, if you are the outdoors type you may want to take it while hiking or biking. The point is to give the women the best possible representation of yourself. In order to keep the costs of the photos to a minimum, you should consider choosing two or three of your best photos and have color copies made instead of developing a new picture for each reply.

3. Try including a little something extra to let her know she is special. This could consist of a pressed flower, or a picture of you as an infant or a toddler, or maybe a poem written in her native language. The idea is to try and distinguish your response from others.

4. Remember when writing your letter that this woman’s native language is not English. That doesn’t mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by keeping it simple you will have a much better chance of successfully communicating with her. Try to avoid using four or five syllable words, instead of impressing her you will probably just confuse her. Make sure you neatly print you letter as opposed to writing in cursive. If your handwriting is difficult to read you may consider typing it.

5. Try to keep the initial letter fast paced. You certainly don’t want to be discussing things like marriage and what your children are going to look like in your first letter! You may want to tell her a little about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have attended. Write a little about your interests, hobbies, and likes and dislikes. Basically, just write about things that you would normally talk about on a first date.

6. Make sure you ask her plenty of questions about herself in your first letter. People like to know that other people are interested in them and their activities. By asking questions about her she will think that you are interested in her as a person and she will want to respond to you immediately.

7. You may find it useful to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman you are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but it may save you from committing a gaffe. You must always remember that this woman was raised in a totally different culture than our own. Obviously, it is in your best interest to know as much as possible about that culture.

8. Should you get to the point that you want to visit the women you are corresponding with, we strongly advise to use the service of a reputable travel agency. Traveling abroad is very different from domestic traveling, and a good travel agent will make sure your trip goes as smoothly as possible. We strongly recommend that you interview at least two or three agents before placing your travel plans with one.

9. Should you get to the point of wanting to marry the woman you have been corresponding with, we strongly recommend the services of a reputable attorney who specializes in immigration law. There are various ways of accomplishing citizenship, and each must be explored to find the approach which will be optimal for your situation.

10. The last and probably most important tip of all is be patient. Consider for a moment how long you have been searching for that perfect mate, ten, twenty, even thirty years? This is an important process and the results of the decision that you make will be far reaching and long lasting. Take the time to correspond with many different women before committing to that special one. This is probably one of the most important decisions that you will ever make, so please be patient, be thorough, and most of all, enjoy the process!

We’ve all done the dating scene. And we’ve all made mistakes when first approaching a woman that we are attracted to, whether in the bar or on the street. But what are some of the more common mistakes that can be made?

I think the first one that is often made is assuming the worst. By doing this, you are in effect “shooting yourself in the foot” before you start. If you go into a situation expecting rejection then most likely that is what you will get, as you are projecting being nervous and non-confident. If, however, you go into the situation with an attitude of expectancy and a positive mindset, more than likely you will get a favorable response. Any in this case you are projecting feelings of confidence and happiness.

Another mistake commonly made is ASSUMING. Often times when we see a beautiful woman, we automatically think (please pick one or all of the following): She’s married, has a boyfriend, is psycho, would not be interested in someone like me, etc. This ties into the point above as it leads to our emotions taking control and thus ensuring that the outcome we would like will not take place. The fix? Do not assume. Just go and talk to her without any notion of desired outcome. If something clicks and you get her number, great. If not, there are other girls to meet.

These are the two major ones that I see (and have been guilty of). Once you learn to get over these two mistakes and recognize when they come up, you will find that you will be more successful in approaching women. You will also find that as a result, you will have more natural confidence and be able to have easier more flowing conversations.

When it comes to understanding women in relationships, one of the oldest debates (even older that those ancient beer commercials arguing between “less filling” and “tastes great”) is the debate about whether opposites attract.

Many people recommend that you find a mate who has a lot in common with you … the buzzword here is “compatibility”. You may have even seen quizzes in magazines or on the internet that purport to evaluate this: “How compatible are you and your mate?”

Why might that be a plus? One reason is that you’re likely to have fewer things to fight over. And if you’re a guy who has been in relationships, you’ll quickly decide that this is the preferred outcome. Most of us guys hate to fight, especially with women.

On the other hand, many people instead advise that “Opposites attract.” The buzzword there is that “complementary” relationships work best. That is, the two of you have sets of traits which differ from but complement (rather that match) each other’s traits.

Perhaps you’re introverted and she’s extroverted? Perhaps you’re very well organized and she’s much more prone to just “winging it”? Perhaps you’re very good at managing money and she isn’t?

At first glance, at least, that sounds logical. It’s the same way football teams approach the college draft each year: they look for strengths that will cover their existing areas of weakness. That’s the way to build a stronger football team, after all. And aren’t couples also supposed to be “a team”?

So, which is the better relationship philosophy? Each approach has some merits: it is easier to get along with people who are similar to us but we also need some differences to keep boredom from setting in too easily.

However, “Mother Nature” has already taken care of this: if you’re heterosexual, almost any woman out there will be very different from you in so many ways. Of course, most women try to hide some of those differences in the earlier stages of a relationship in an effort to get you to like them more and to stay with them. But once you’re married and the honeymoon phase has ended, you’re unlikely to conclude that your wife’s traits are just too similar to your own.

Just the reverse is the more common result: you’ll probably lament that your wife isn’t a lot more similar in her perspectives and outlook to your own.

So, opposites do attract. But if you’re a man and she’s a woman, that problem is largely solved by the way we and they have been designed. Therefore, the most fruitful strategy for most guys is to focus on finding a woman with whom you’re exceptionally compatible.

If you’re looking for a one-stand, then compatibility is not nearly as much of a concern. But if you do hope to be happily married, then compatibility becomes absolutely crucial. Staying together with one woman “until death do you part” will seem an eternity to you if you don’t get along extremely well with her.

Therefore, understanding women in relationships well enough to “go the distance” with one - and enjoy the ride - means understanding the need to make compatibility your highest priority.

Guys, getting hot women to want you can be incredibly easy. In fact, I have a feeling that you are making this whole thing way more complicated than it needs to be. You need to understand the one thing that will make women completely attracted to you. Once you understand this, the entire pickup game becomes so much easier. You need to be an Alpha male, the type of guy that women fall head over heels for. Do you want to know more?

I actually want you to have this information because it has become a personal mission to make sure more guys are able to have the kind of success with women like I have had. Why? Because I wasn’t always this successful and I know how it feels. I don’t want any man to end up alone. This stuff works, but only if you let it. You need to make a change because what you were doing right now isn’t working.

The one thing that makes women go completely crazy for a guy is self-confidence. Women can look past all of the physical traits if you have massive self-confidence. They eat it up. This all boils down to science. It is in a woman’s nature to be attracted to the top dog, the alpha male. Alpha males are completely filled with confidence. And that is why I want you to take control of your life and become an Alpha male so that you can have a huge success that I have had picking up women.

Stop spending your money on expensive dates.

Stop trying to impress women with your wallet.

It is time that you invested in yourself instead. Choose to become the alpha male and you will be blown away by how many hot women you are able to take home!

Now, I’m sure that you’re aware of how single women make such a fuss over their hair. They are always looking at their hair in the mirror, trying to get every hair in place, experimenting with different colors and styles, different lengths and textures, etc.

In other words, they are obsessed with their hair and appearance.

So, what does this have to do with attracting and succeeding with single women? A lot my friend, and I will explain why:

Let’s face it guys, women will judge you on your looks and your hair has a lot to do with your looks. And being that single women are so obsessed with their hair, they notice how a guy’s hair looks and if it’s a great style and cut, it will make you more attractive in her eyes.

So, how do you determine what style and cut looks best on you? I’m glad you asked. Here’s a couple of websites that can help you out:

1. Go to: http://www.hairdos.com - Here you will find samples of the latest styles for men. Choose the ones you think you would look best with and print them out. Then take them to the best hair stylist in town you can find and tell them to cut and style your hair like the photo. Also, he or she can help you pick which cut and style would look best on you.

You will need to create an account with a password. Also, it would be best if you had a headshot photo of yourself in a file format (jpeg or gif). This way you can use your face and experiment with different cuts and styles using their website. When you decide which ones you would like to try, just print them out and take them to a good top-of-the-line hair stylist.

Then ask his or her opinion of which one would look best on you and have them make you look like the photo.

In closing, you’d be surprised how drastically you can change your looks to make you more handsome just by wearing the right haircut and style for you.

Jokes on this subject are plentiful.

“What is the smallest book in the world?” Answer: What Men Know About Women!“

Men all over the world scratch their heads in dismay and ask each other “what do women want?” Even the learned Sigmund Freud, referred to with awe as the father of modern psychology grudgingly admitted: “The great question which I have not been able to answer is, ‘What does a woman want?’”

The problem is that men asked each other what women want instead of asking women that can answer that question for them. I am going to provide you with the definitive listing of exactly what women look for in a man.

• Women want a man that is masculine. That means no whining, whimpering, pouting or acting a fool when you don’t get your way. You do not wear more jewelry than your lady does. Your hair is not longer than hers either. You do not wear makeup, especially eyeliner. You DO have muscles. You DO NOT have man-boobs. You refuse to wear unisex clothing or define yourself as “metro sexual.” Your voice is not high and squeaky. An added plus is neatly trimmed hair on your body or face. You treat your woman like a lady and are courteous and gentlemanly to her at all times. You open doors, you pull out chairs.
• Women want a man they can respect. That means you are honorable, sincere, trustworthy, and a person she admires. You work hard and she thinks you are the greatest guy in the world, at least in the top 5. When a woman is in love, she longs to feel that no other man can hold a candle to her guy. She doesn’t need you to tell her what to do like her father, but she still looks up to you in many ways and respects your opinions, lifestyle, behavior and thought processes.
• Women want a man they can trust. That means no matter how bad things may hurt, she can count on you to always tell her the unadulterated and complete truth. She knows that you express yourself with sincerity and honesty. You have proven yourself to be a man of your word so that she feels confident when you tell her something, that is how it is or how it will be. That trust in you is KEY. And once you damage it, the 100% open hearted, no holds barred love she has for you is also injured.
• Women want a playmate. A man that can be silly with her, make her laugh, is full of surprises. The two of you share secret looks and secret giggles, even in a crowed. When things are awful she knows her man can find the humor in the situation and make everyone around relax and laugh with him.
• Women want a man that can be Daddy. Not in the literal sense, don’t get me wrong! But every woman wants a cuddle, a kiss on the forehead, and an “it will be all right honey!” from her man every now and then. We enjoy that sense of “being taken care of” though that need not be taken literally nor focus solely on financial caretaking. You give her a hug when she cuts her finger, as you carefully administer first aid and place a Band-Aid on her wound. Taking care of your woman means you meet her needs emotionally, mentally, sexually, psychologically and perhaps financially at times too (like if she is on maternity leave and cannot work while her body heals from childbirth).
• Women want a guy with something to talk about besides cars, sports and work. Women are not necessarily attracted to the best looking guy (by male standards), have you noticed that? Look at pop music diva Janet Jackson and her self-proclaimed soul mate Jermaine Dupree for a perfect example! Women are most attracted to a guy that has the sexual connection and mental allure she is seeking.This most often has to do with a man’s verbal skills and ability to use words to stimulate her mind. Shy, quiet guys usually don’t have much to say and women find this boring. Watch some of the “player” types and how they work. Observe their witty banter, engaging jokes, humorous stories. They ask women for their opinion, they jump around and talk about lots of different subjects which all work together to keep women’s minds active.Females are very auditory creatures, and we enjoy HEARING words and voices and enjoy talking and communicating. When men can adjust their behavior and get on the female wavelength, women respond positively. That is why a guy that may be (by other guy’s standards) not that good looking is able to get ALL the women. He talks. He makes women laugh. Hot women have a great time with him and enjoy being around him because he is NEVER boring.
• Women want a man they think is attractive. This standard varies from woman to woman but if you are clean, dressed appropriately for your age and physique, well groomed, and present yourself with confidence, she will see you as an attractive guy. If you are HOT, SEXY, DA BOMB, etc. well, that is just icing on the cake. Everyone should do whatever they can to look their best and stay in great physical shape.
• Women want a man that is romantic and attentive. Even if we have been with you 47 years, we still want you to court and woo us every now and then. Single guys: keep your eyes open and your attention focused on your target woman. Notice things about her - things she does and says and wears and wants. Boost her confidence with your belief in her abilities. Remind your new beau of why you were attracted to her and find her fascinating and are excited about getting to know her.If you are already happily coupled, keep doing the things you did to get her with regards to time, attention, and flattery… and you will keep your woman happy forever.
• Women want a man that is strong. You don’t want women to perceive you to be “too” nice. Guys that are “too nice” to women bend over backwards to please. Many men I talk to have a hard time differentiating between a “nice guy” and a doormat. But women can tell the difference and don’t want the sappy doormat guy, not matter how nicely he treats her. Men need to speak up and put women in check when they cross boundaries! If you don’t voice your opinions or desires and are overly accommodating, women don’t see you as NICE, they see you as WEAK.Women want to look up to their man, admire his masculinity, and know that he is not going to take much (if any) mess from them or anyone else. He may smile and indulge her occasionally, but she knows that is just for now and enjoys it tremendously because he “let her” get away with something.

Now if you can incorporate this advice into your way of relating to women, be respectful to her and treat her like a lady, you will be in the front of the crowd! You’ll inspire a woman’s respect, passion, and love.

And your single days will be over.

Do you easily get nervous, cold feet, scared, or shy when around women? If so, this could be the best dating advice for you. Some men might not be as confident as other men are when around ladies. Some men might have a hard time finding a date, while some can’t even get close to talking to a woman. Think how hard it would be for that certain shy guy to even pick women up. If you belong to the same “unfortunate” club, here are the best tips for you to know how to pick women up, and in a matter of days or so, you could be a self-proclaimed Casanova.

Perhaps the best way on how to be a modern-day Casanova is to do what Casanova once did. If you’ve seen the movie hit of the same name not too long ago, you could see how Casanova (portrayed by the late Heath Ledger) handled his dates with girls. He enticed a nun (yes, a nun; however, don’t think about doing the same), and he did this with a few other women too.

Casanova can be described as playful, engaging, determined, and most of all, confident. He is willing to date anyone and he fights for it if he desires to do so. If you want to make an impression among girls, you should think about switching your confidence level one more notch. Confidence can make it easier for you to interact among the people around you, especially the girls. It will be easier for you to be engaging, to be playful, and to show your real side when in a conversation. Other than which, it would be easier for you to share jokes as well as to be humorous and witty in conversations.

Next, you have to know how to project yourself around people. Once again, the more time you spend being in front of groups, not only will you be able to build confidence, you will also learn to build you persona before women. If you have a knack for speaking in front of crowds, you will find being in front of women as easy as speaking to millions of people.

Politeness should also be given importance when meeting people, as well as women. Showing small signs of gentleness can show women you’re a gentleman too and not just someone who is in the bar for the women alone. Little acts of courtesy like offering a lady a drink, making eye-to-eye contact as you speak and if stuttering is one of your mannerisms, try to lose this as you speak since this can be a sign of nervousness.

As you plunge deeper into the conversation, do not forget the most important practice in dating: the art of flirting. Sometimes, you have to drop a few smiles too, as well as a few pick up lines. Believe it or not, these cheesy lines can flatter girls too so don’t take them for granted. Instead, use them to the best of your ability and sooner or later, you will know how to pick women up without dropping a sweat.

Going back to Casanova, you will have to have a little determination too just as Casanova showed in the movie. If you like a girl, you are going to have to walk up to her and get acquainted. It’s all about getting rid of your nervousness and doing what you just want to do: get a date.

As you master these tips, you will find yourself living a new life indeed-no more dateless nights for you! It sort of follows: if you know how to pick women up, you’ll know how to handle them as well. All you need is confidence, wit, humor, and a few pickup lines, and you’re good to go.

When a man sees a woman for the first time, it isn’t always just about checking out her physical attributes and imagining what she might be like in bed.

It’s MUCH more than that. He is also checking to see if she looks friendly, approachable, and potentially receptive to his attention. He’s also assessing whether or not he should approach that woman and start a conversation.

If you go to dating sites and check men’s profiles, you’ll notice that the number one quality that men always find attractive in woman is: FUN TO BE WITH!

So, whenever you’re feeling open to meeting guys, you should ask yourself this question:

“Am I presenting myself as if I’m having fun?”

Men are ALWAYS more likely to approach you if you look like you are having fun.

Portraying yourself in an inviting way is actually surprisingly easy. Check your posture - are your arms folded or ankles crossed? (Yes, this DOES actually make a difference!)

Are you looking around the room? This is a really obvious sign that you’re open to being approached.

Are you making eye contact with anyone? Don’t be afraid to catch his eye.

And - MOST IMPORTANTLY! - are you SMILING? A friendly smile is a great way to invite attention and offer him some positive encouragement.

And don’t worry. You don’t have to paste a big clownish smile on your face for no apparent reason. It’s easy to smile without baring your teeth in a huge slice-of-watermelon grin because a real smile isn’t about TEETH. It’s about EYES!

Here’s how to smile in a subtle, inviting way WITHOUT seeming like a lunatic who’s grinning for no apparent reason…

Put a small, but genuine, smile on your closed lips. Let it seep through to your eyes - they should be SLIGHTLY squinted, like a toned-down version of what they do when you’re really smiling hard.

Really, it’s just about making yourself look happy, positive, and like you’re having fun. Someone who’s having fun is ALWAYS more attractive than someone who’s not. LOOKS are way, way less important than PERSONAL PRESENTATION. Trust me!

Flirting with a guy is usually the first step in attracting his attention. While you’ve probably done your share of flirting, like most women, but how effective do you think you are? Here are five techniques that really work.

#1 - Flash him a sparkling smile.

Not only will it enhance your appearance, it will also show that you are friendly and open to his advances. Smiling is not really considered flirting in some circles, but it is a small gesture that says you’re interested.

#2 - Make eye contact with him

If you can make eye contact with him while flashing him a smile, so much the better. You shouldn’t stare - he could misinterpret too long a look - but a few seconds’ worth of eye contact can go a long way toward piquing a guy’s interest.

#3 - Touch him gently

A light touch or gentle tap on the arm to make a point or to get him to look your way is another effective flirting technique. You don’t want to overdo it, but a few gentle touches will definitely get his attention.

#4 - Keep your voice down

Don’t try to be heard over the noise in a crowded bar or restaurant. By keeping your voice down, you will entice him to move closer to you so he can hear what you are saying. Very effective!

#5 - Be yourself

Don’t do anything that doesn’t come naturally to you. Just be yourself and enjoy the game. The point of flirting is to try to connect with a guy you’ll build a relationship with, so presenting a false front at the beginning is never a good idea.

Nest time you find yourself flirting with a guy, remember to use some of these techniques to show him you’re interested without coming on too strongly.

Attention men - we all want to get the secret key that works every time that makes females attracted to us. However, there is only a select few who have totally cracked this puzzle. These guys, part of what is known as the seduction ‘underground’, have created a blueprint out of their vast knowledge that enables men to make women fall in love - at pure will. Read on to learn this “covert” system of psychology tricks system and achieve killer results at lightning speeds…

Three “Covert” Psychology Techniques To Make Any Girl Want You Badly

Technique Number 1: “Deceptively Confusing”. This is an ‘underhanded trick’ but it works like magic so who cares? The name of this game is to CONFUSE her with everything you say or do. When you get her totally astounded, she will be occupied with ‘decoding’ the things that you say and try to figure out why you do the things you do. This will make her vulnerable to what you tell her directly. Evil stuff indeed…

Technique Number 2: “Take The Lead”. Lifted from the neuro-linguistic programming (also known as NLP) technique of “high value framing” - this technique requires you to ‘occupy’ the leadership role in the relationship quickly.

Do this  by starting to be unreasonable in EVERYTHING you do. Perhaps strangely, you will find that she will comply to some (if not all) of your requests, however unreasonable they may be. Try it - it works all the time!

Technique Number 3: “Fractionation”. This is another hypnosis and NLP technique of bringing the female through an emotional rollercoaster, and ‘anchoring’ her happy states to you. As a result, she becomes emotionally dependent on you, and will be super compliant to your requests. This NLP technique is known to be able to make stalkers out of females, so please use with caution.