September 30th, 2009 | 
Author: According to psychologists, break-ups are the single highest source of stress - which is probably why so many of us handle them in exactly the wrong way. People bed, plead and even threaten their exes - when in reality, only precisely opposite behavior can get them their ex back! This is why in this article I am going to show you a secret technique I used to get my ex back in just 17 days by finally becoming the man she dreamed of - the ALPHA MALE.
An alpha male is a man who has confidence, knows his own worth and doesn’t put women in pedestal just to win their attention. Instead, he knows just how good he is - and he considers that women should prove THEIR worth to HIM, not the other way around. I know this is contrary to what you have read so far, but let me ask you this - ever seen a woman tell you how she’d love to have a guy who’s always there to satisfy her every whim - only to start dating someone who looks and acts like a jerk a month later?
This is because women are attracted to men who know their own worth. Although they enjoy it when a men begs and pleads for their favor, such men look weak-willed to them - and they will never become more than just friends. By indulging her every desire, you’re simply showing to her that you know she’s worth much more than you - and therefore you have to “bribe” her to keep her in your life.
So how can you use this knowledge to get your ex back? First of all, stop stalking your ex - by doing show, you’re just showing her how desperate you are to have her back. She won’t respect you for it - if anything, she’ll see just how much little self-esteem you have. Instead, go “No Contact” and drop off the face of the earth for two weeks. When she realizes her little toy is no longer running after her, she’ll be intrigued enough to give you a call!
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When she does call you (in my case, she phoned in 17 days!), it’s important you say exactly the right words. You don’t want to resort to pleading (or she’ll lose whatever respect she’s gained for you in the last two weeks) - but you don’t want to push her away for good by appearing too uncaring. Instead, you have to hit the middle ground - and I review the best ways to do it on my website - click here to visit it! Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=George_Blackwell |
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