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All I see and hear anymore is harmony this and Dr. somebody preaching about finding your true love. Well with all the media beaming perfect bodies and perfect balance it is no wonder we just cannot seem to measure up.

What do I mean! MMmhhh.

Well Chances are your in a relationship now or possible just left one. OK whats my point. What is happening with that? Or what did happen if it is over.

What I have found is that most people if they could go back and do it again they would. I know what your thinking. What am I getting at? If you thought back on this last or almost last relationship.

What went wrong?

How much did you actually contribute to the demise? Oh don’t get huffy! You know as well as me you pushed buttons. Sometimes we become so comfortable with our mate that we relax our respect values. Possibly expecting more from them then a complete stranger.

“I recently came across some literature that changed my perspective on dealing with a partner. This new information has changed my approach towards relationships. If your looking to find answers this is a good place to start. “

Why we do this seems somewhat a mystery but the the truth is we all seem to do this to those closest to us. It becomes a a strong underlying root that slowly grows and splits into fragments of misery. It is those points where we become so at ease with our relationship that we begin to take advantage.

The point of this article is to help direct anyone seeking a way to keep their relationship in the right direction. Possibly re-unite lost loves.

With society and the media in general constantly pushing us on to the next best thing it is no wonder relationship after relationship crumble. This constant barrage hinders our thought process getting in the way of our true feelings.

We need to focus our attention on what truly matters. Our family or loved ones spouse or other. You and only you know where you should focus but you need to look in the mirror.

Do you see what you want to?

Are you someone you could be friends with?

Can you count on yourself?

If not then you got some ’splainin to do! To quote an old memory.

Make yourself sit down and write out what you need to do to find yourself. Stop pushing your negative energy down the wrong path. It is time to stand up and focus on what really matters to you.

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